Reclaiming my faith and joining
HopeGateWay United Methodist Faith Community at age 40, after living most of my adult life alternating between
“spiritual but not religious” and “too smart for church”, has been a profoundly
moving and important personal experience. It’s also been very challenging at times, as
the hate-filled behavior of people who call themselves Christians (see:
Westboro Baptist Church or hundreds of other recent examples) makes me angry and ashamed to be associated in even the minutest way with
anyone who claims to follow the teachings of Christ. In fact, organized
religion in general gets a bad—and often well-earned—rap for hurting,
alienating and shaming people who need to hear the message that they, too, are
beloved children of God, the Universe or whatever higher power they may (or may
not) believe in.

Today, however, I was proud of my affiliation with
HopeGateWay, with Christians and other people of faith throughout our
community, as I attended “Neighbors Standing Shoulder to Shoulder,” an event
hosted by USM's Multicultural Student Affairs, the Maine Council of Churches, the USM Muslim Student Association, and several other groups. More than 20 people representing a wide array of faith
traditions—including Jewish, Hindu, Sikh, Muslim, Buddhist, Quaker, Methodist,
Unitarian Universalist, Catholic, Ba’hai and many others—spoke about the thread that
weaves us all together: the call to love our neighbors as ourselves. A
particularly powerful moment among many was when two young Muslim women spoke
about the fear that rippled through their community when news of the murders of
a Muslim family in Chapel Hill, NC occurred several months ago, and the
challenges of having their faith judged based on the actions of people who
bastardize Islam and the Koran to justify acts of violence.
One of the pastors of my church, Rev. Sara Ewing-Merrill,
shared the following message written by pastor, poet and composer,
Steve Garnaas-Holmes*, that to me was a beautiful reminder that we are
more alike than different:
We
are not separate things, but parts of one living Being.We are no more
separate than the fingers on a hand.There is one
body, and we are all it.We serve the
poor because they are us.We love the
stranger because in them we know ourselves.We side with
the oppressed because they hold our wisdom.We honor those
who are different because they complete us.We respect
those who horrify us, for they are within us.We bring the
Other to our table: it is theirs, for we are theirs.We include
them in our compassion, for we include them.This is the
mystery of the Holy Trinity, that in all there is One.
There is One
of us, and the oneness, the One, is Holy.
(*I do not have a reference to where this was originally published.)
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Executive Director of Maine Council of Churches and Unitarian Universalist pastor, Rev. Sue Gabrielson, welcomes people to the event. |
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| Ashok Nalamalapu, representing the Hindu community, speaks. |
For me, this event was an important reminder that faith communities can be vital partners with secular organizations in the work of community building, restorative justice, and social change we have talked so much about this semester.